The battle for Marriage.

The other night my wife and I had a quick conversation before going to sleep. ┬áIt has to do with Married couples that don't have much intimacy in their marriage and how that can have a big part in why people cheat. From Sexless Marriages to Infrequency issues, I look at it as one of … Continue reading The battle for Marriage.


Negativity is ruining your life!

Negativity is one of those things that if you don't stop early it will consume your life. It can come from any perspective of your life. Your marriage, friendships, work, and especially past or current life experiences. Mainly, I believe that it will come from your past life struggles and your work. When your negativity … Continue reading Negativity is ruining your life!

These seven things can poison a marriage!

These seven things can poison a marriage! 1. Not initiating or withholding sex from your spouse Studies have proven that most often, men will start sex with their spouse. Women just don't start as often, and this can cause harm to your relationship. Yes, we know there is a stigma that women shouldn't do anything … Continue reading These seven things can poison a marriage!

The start of a new season and I’m scared!

About 6 months ago, I noticed some lumps on the side of my neck. I didn't really think much of it. Lymph nodes swell for lots of reasons. Once I saw that the swelling was not going down and I wasn't sick to have them swollen like they were, so I made the appointment that … Continue reading The start of a new season and I’m scared!

Negativity is a curse! It isn’t easy to break it!

So every single day lately, I have been told I'm Negative. OK, so maybe it's more on a bi-weekly basis. It's a pretty constant occurrence. I remember when there was a time that I wasn't negative. I remember being happy. Laughing, cracking jokes and trying way too hard to be liked. Not Anymore, I guess … Continue reading Negativity is a curse! It isn’t easy to break it!

Control is just a perception

What is control in a relationship? Does the "controlling" person really have control? Could it be that you are granting that person Control over you? Do you think that you actually have the control? The definition of control is this. "the power to influence or direct people's behavior or the course of events." So Control … Continue reading Control is just a perception


Did the title grab your attention? I hope so, I see a subject in distress. We must find the missing subjects. On my twitter profile, I asked a very select few woman who run some popular blogs on what books they would recommend for my website that woman should read. I was kinda shocked at … Continue reading MAYDAY! MAYDAY! SEX AND INTIMACY ARE M.I.A!